轻松交友之道
很多人觉得交朋友很难。其实并不难!你要做的只是从自己的保护壳里走出来,并且记住,如果你爱自己,别人也会爱你。对青少年来说,交朋友的难易程度可能取决于几个因素。当然,你要花点时间了解一下他们是真正的朋友,还是会把你的秘密宣扬出去的人。记住,交友需谨慎!
1. Relax. It’s all about confidence―if you are nervous or try too hard to look cool you’ll just act weird[怪异的], so you won’t make many friends. You will stand out as overdoing[做得过分] something. You have to act like you have had plenty of friends in the past so even the “cool” ones will want to speak to you. You have to think of good reasons for why someone would like to meet you, think of the virtues[优点] you have. So relax, people will like you for passing a peaceful energy.
2. Make the first move. Don’t be shy; it won’t help you in anything. Look around for someone that seems interesting, then relax and go up to talk to them. Say hi, give them your name if they don’t know your name yet, ask how they are and just meet them. If you know a bit about them, for example, the person likes crafts[手工制作], you can talk about that. A good subject to talk about to anyone is music,
because almost everybody likes music, you can ask someone what kind of music they like and start a cool conversation with them and even find some things mon[共同享有的]. Sitting shy in a corner distances[使显得遥远] you from everyone else. e more outgoing[开朗的]. Other topics could be movies or sports. Try not to get deep when you are first meeting somebody. Steer clear from[避开] things
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