风俗礼仪.ppt

中西风俗礼仪对比
Week 7
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中西风俗礼仪对比
中西家庭伦理精神
中西婚姻
中西节日
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家庭伦理的基本精神
家庭本位: 中国传统的家族私有制及其基础上的宗法人伦秩序所要求的家庭伦理的基本精神是家庭本位,即一切以家庭利益为重,个人必须无条件地服从家庭利益。
第一,家庭私有财产制,个人没有财产统理权。
第二,婚姻是家庭的事情,个人没有婚姻自主权。
个人本位: 西方传统个体私有制及其基础上的靠商品交换和契约关系所形成的西方家庭伦理精神是以个人为本位,一切以个人利益为中心,家庭利益服从个人利益。
第一,个人有财产权。
第二,个人有婚姻自主权。
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家庭本位和个人本位
家庭本位
从根本上来说,这是由自给自足的自然经济所决定的。
首先,小农经济决定了家庭生产是社会生产的基本方式。
其次, 家庭是人们主要的活动场所。
再次,家庭是人们的情感和精神支柱。
个人本位
商业贸易的发达
优越的交通条件,发达的商品经济和海上贸易, 不利于形成古希腊社会中的血缘亲族组织。
上帝面前人人平等的思想是建立在承认个性、发展个性的基础上的。
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中西婚姻对比
婚礼仪式的不同
中国传统婚礼仪式
一拜天地:尊崇天地
二拜高堂:上下尊卑的格局
夫妻对拜:双方的认同
西方神证婚礼仪式(协议\契约)
我愿意
婚姻基础的不同
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婚礼仪式
The Purpose of Christian Marriage
Legal Declarations
Prayer
Giving of the bride by her father or friend
The Promises
The Vows (Legal requirement)
The Giving of the Ring or Rings
Declaration
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1. The Purpose of Christian Marriage
“We are gathered here in the presence of God to celebrate the wedding of A and B to rejoice with them, and to support them with our prayers.”
Or
In the presence of God, the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, we have come together to witness the marriage of A and B, to pray for God's blessing on them, to share their joy and to celebrate their love.
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2. Legal Declarations
Minister says: “If any know of any reason why [full name of the bridegroom] and [full name of the bride] may not lawfully be married to each other, let them now declare it.”
Bridegroom says, “I do solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment why I, [full name of the bridegroom], may not be joined in matrimony to [full name of bride].”
The Bride says, “I do solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment why I, [full name of the bride], may not be joined in matrimony to [full name of bridegroom].”
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3. Prayer
Faithful God, only and eternal, source of life and spring of love, we thank and praise you for bringing A and B to this day, and we pray for them. Lord of life and love: May their marriage be life-giving and life-long, e