让孩子胆子大起来(Let the children grow bolder)
Let children courage, . Txt people and people's heart is the most distant, sincer, withdrawal and other manifestations.
Reason three: do not see the "flash point"”
For the children shrink behavior, such as not slippery slide, jump on a trampoline, the voice is too small, parents should try to keep your feelings to yourself, do not react too strongly, and should be good at discovering and strengthening children "spark”, to avoid taking the other standard to judge their children. The timid child, occasionally "bold" move, perhaps in the parents it seems not worth mentioning, but parents, must try to capture these transient "flash”, give the necessary and even exaggerated praise and encouragement.
But in reality, many parents of children not only the bravery
of indifferent, and often with other children to compare, "what are you, who you are than”, "who took the prize in the speech competition, you are not on the podium” These words
seriously hurt the child's self-esteem, so that children become more self abased, timid. Therefore, parents must adhere to the principle of "more positive, less criticism, more encouragement and less criticism" for timid children.
Reason four: intimidate the child
In the wrong way of education, the child may be too worried about possible dangers, mental state continued tension, over time, will become timi
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