Whataboutwaywardchildren孩子任性怎么办.doc

What about wayward children （孩子任性怎么办）
Willful, is a common problem of the only child, mainly for the stubborn, resist, ive means of education. If children do not eat properly, the parents do not have to waste any more words, after dinner time to put away all the food. Do not worry about starving children, a meal two meals do not eat, the child's growth and development will not affect.
How to educate children
In life, we should accept three aspects of education, that is, family education, school education and social education.
Family education, as the earliest form of life education and the longest influencing time, plays a very important role in the growth of the younger generation, and it is irreplaceable in school education.
With the arrival of the era of knowledge economy, the fission effect of science and technology and the competition of market economy, the speed of knowledge updating is speeding up, and our family education is confronted with great challenge. Most of the parents because there is no direct contact of your specialty and work and education, the education of their children is more by emotion and experience, methods in the education of children on children properly, widespread squeamish, domineering, assertive, lack of willpower to wait for a phenomenon, how to solve this situation? The author believes that to allow children to grow up healthy and happy, we should take the following methods:
First, the elimination of parents fear of children
Junior high school stage is the "turning over" stage for children, for various reasons, academic performance has declined, parents feel more anxious, impetuous. Children and parents have an antagonistic mood, and then parents should calm down and learn to wait patiently for their children to grow up. "Children's desire to avoid failure is stronger than the desire to succeed, z/ says one expert. In order to prevent the smallest possible failure, it is better to lower the level of effort. z/ This is one of