怎样让自己变得更加自信.doc

Step 1: Speak to inner gremlins
Get rid of those subconscious negative thoughts that make you seem more shy and self-conscious. Telling yourself that you are great and that will reflect in your body language.

抛掉那些潜意识里消极的想法,因为它们只能让你看起来更害羞,更忸怩。告诉自己,自己是很棒的。这在你的肢体语言中也会有所体现。
Step 2: Realign posture
When you feel shy or nervous, you tend to curl up and do barrier gestures, which make your posture seem more negative. Stretch up to your full height,as if you are trying to touch the ceiling with the top of your head. Bring your shoulders back and down, arch your back slightly and make sure your weight is evenly divided on both feet.

感到害羞或是紧张时,人总会放不开手脚,做一些阻挡性的动作,这会让你的举止显得不够落落大方。舒展身体,就像你要用头顶到天花板一样。肩膀向后下方微倾,后背稍成弧度,确保两脚均匀承受身体重量。
Step 3: Stress
Stress can tighten jaw muscles, creating a rigid mouth which can affect your speech. Pressing the tip of your tongue into the roof of your mouth will relax your jaw and make your face look more relaxed.

当人感到压力时,颚部的咀嚼肌会紧张,导致口齿不灵活,影响你讲话。用你的舌尖顶上牙膛可以让你的颚部肌肉放松,也让你的脸部表情显得更自然。
Step 4: Stretch up
Use more open and emphatic gestures and stop using body barriers, such as folded arms and legs and other forting gestures. Stand with your hands down around waist height, using them to gesticulate rath